Saturday, 13 October 2018

7 Seduction Tips for Men - How to Attract Women Now

How to �pull Women: Seven Powerful �conquest Tips for Men to �pull and �make the Woman You Want

Learn how to make the women you want

There?s something about the tropics that unleashes the primordial sexual part of us. And when you blend that with , it?s a powerful combination. I?m feeling an press to chuck my brassieres. And I?m also feeling a astonishingly draw to get back into writing about conquest when I return to San Francisco. It?s been a while since I wrote about .

This entire trip has been an interesting play in contrasts. The Holy Spirit uses contrast as a teaching tool to help us get deeper insights into what is and is not working in our lives. Thus, , I got to see the contrast between what works and what does not work in conquest. It?s just a refresher course for me, as I already knew this of course. But for whatever reason, it has reignited my interest in writing about conquest.

My lensman understands how the game is played

One thing is certain. Just as ?logic? does not work in personal development, and we must instead ? make? the subconscious mind so that the mind is truly transformed ? so also ?logic? does not work in conquest between men and women. The only tips for seducing women that are going to work require integration of your aroused and coherent mentality.

If you think the woman ?should? be into you because of all the ?nice? things you do for her, you don?t understand how the game is played. At all. And it would be best rather than finding shift in her, to take an reliable assessment of what skills you need to learn and where in your life you need to become more whole in order to pull the women you really desire.

On the other hand, the biggest no-no in conquest is knavery. Read my .

Here?s a refresher course in what works and does not work in conquest:

1. �conquest Tips for Men #1 ? Knowing And Developing Your Life Purpose

Some people think only men need to have a ?purpose? in life. I don?t buy in to this double standard and believe it is as essential for men and women. For men though, it is non- transferrable. You must have a purpose that does not trust in any way on the woman you want to make. It was a big turn on that my lensman in Costa Rica is so stormily about his work and is running a successful business. At night after we messed around, he would not clingstone on to me, putting inexplicit pressure on me to harbor him. Instead, he went home to edit photographs lol! His having a purpose that did not need me took a lot of pressure off our interactions and made everything a lot more sexy and interesting.

By purpose, I don?t mean you just have an interest or a pursuit. I mean you have a driving passion that you have turned into something Extremely successful. Or that it?s obvious you are on your way to doing that. Nothing is less sexy to me than a man who wants to bolted on to my purpose without contributing independent value of his own. I don?t mean ? theoretic? independent value either. I mean he is a prosperous enterpriser (that?s just what I go for, obviously there are men with other purposes who can pull women), making sales, has a significant audience, and is going for it in his life and his business.

2. �conquest Tips for Men #2 ? Not Being Too �congenial

Some people ?get by? in life by agreeing with everything, and particularly with women will tend to agree with everything she says. This comes across as spurious and weak.

Yes, of course, we women want a man who shares important core values with us. But we also want some resistance in the relationship to keep things interesting. If a man is always agreeing with me, agreeing with others, but never sticks his neck out to write his own blog posts or Facebook posts or whatever expressing his Own opinions and insights, then he comes across to me as someone who does Not have a clear life purpose nor sufficient inner strength and courageousness to be with me. He also comes across as not being assertive enough to be a cheering life partner.

A man who is willing to discord with me, not to be a pain in the keister, but because he genuinely disagrees ? is sexy. However, if he disagrees with me when I say I am not attracted to him, then that is not sexy. That just demonstrates that he?s not willing to take responsibility for being the most beautifully man he can possibly be. And it is a deal surf.

No guide to conquest tips for men would be complete without mentioning the problem of being too ?nice.? Much has also been written about the ?nice? guy. Women don?t like nice guys because ?nice? is a . We don?t trust ?nice? because ?nice? is not nice. It is manipulative and weak and ambidextrous, but it?s not nice. Don?t expect women to get aroused about you sexually by being ?nice.?

We don?t want a man who is a tug. We do want a man who is supporting us and fondly us. But not when that is All he is doing, because then it feels smothering. She may be extremely thankful for all your help if you importune on being the ?nice? guy. She is not going to have sex with you. And if she does have sex with you, she is probably not in unity doing it and may just be waiting for something better to come along. Sorry to be so frank. Sometimes dullness is what is needed to get through all the self defenses and excuses that blind us from the truth ().

3. �conquest Tips for Men #3 ? Doing the Best You Can With Your Physical Assets

Oh, it?s true we do not want to be loved for our looks. We all want to be with someone who can look beyond the trivial and see the deeper value we are bringing to the table. However, there simply is no justify for not doing the best you can with what you have, physically.

If you are a man who wants to date a woman who clearly invests a lot of time and energy in looking and smell her best, and you garbage to attend to these issues in yourself, please do not expect her to be impressed.

My lensman is not a particularly tall guy, and usually I am only attracted to men who are at least six feet and sooner taller. Yet he does the best with what he has, and this is very beautifully. The lack of height is mostly made up for with the fact that he?s powerful and fit and clearly gets a lot of physical activity. He also attends to his fashion (of course that differs when you think you?re going to be dangling out in a wet pool bar or wading through creeks lol), and he brushes his dentition after every repast to make sure his intimation always smells awesome. This is a guy who knows how to play the game.

�attendance to being as fit as possible, erosion sexy clothes, and having fresh intimation ? all of these signal to a woman that you get it. �erosion tennis shoes for anything other than an athletic effort, refusing to learn about fashion, and not attendance to necking hygienics is going to turn the woman off.

4. Demonstrate that You Get It With Subcommunication

A woman, especially a woman with a lot of options, is listening all the time to your sub-communication to see if you are a man who ?gets it.? My lensman demonstrated that he gets it when we talked about his dating of other women here in Costa Rica. In offend of the fact that he is an American living in a foreign country, he pretty much never lacks for female company. And his descriptions of his relationships with women here show me that he understands how the game is played. He also demonstrates this understanding with lots of elusive physical and verbalization cues as he managed to ?plant seedman? for seducing me, even in his emails before my arrival here.

Sub-communication is so elusive that most men do not get it at all.
Seriously. It requires an ability to ? strain in? on an aroused wavelength that most men are forgetful to its existence. If you think you ?get? what I?m saying here, yet you are not getting the results you want, then you don?t get it.

5. �conquest Tips for Men #5 ? �humbleness and Willingness to Improve

Probably nothing is a larger turn off to me than a man who thinks he ?gets it? who does not get it. Men who win with conquest are always learning, improving, calibrating. They don?t think of themselves as finished products. They don?t think of themselves as ?above? learning the art of conquest. There is a humbleness and an receptivity to the feedback of everyday encounters that characterizes a true master.

Covering up major gaps in your game with ?spiritual dogshit,? as I call it, is not going to get the job done. A lot of spiritual people ignore the physical world and the need to ground their otherworldliness into real world results. You can do this for years if you want, but you can look at the results to see it?s not working. This is what we call demurrer.

6. �conquest Tips for Men #6 ? Being Grounded In the Physical World

Women are not all likewise. There are some women who will go for a really spiritual or intellectual guy who is not fully grounded in the physical world. I?m not one of them.

Why are women so attracted to men who participate in extreme sports or really any sports in a serious way? It?s for a lot of reasons. One, it makes the man?s body more fit, see above. Two, there is something about participating in extreme sports that ignites gender in a very raw and primordial way. As a woman, also, participating like this brings me alive and awakens my gender. I recommend it for both genders. Three, men who participate in these kind of endeavors develop an unlearned confidence that carries over to sex and romance. And lots of other reasons too protracted to list here.

When my lensman and I had our outdoor photo scoot, creep over rocks and tree stumps and standing in a cold falls in lean clothing. When he took me surfboarding and we felt the primordial power of the ocean, while he was affecting the small of my back and giving me instructions ? That is sexy. It?s why we in the conquest community suggest that men take women on exciting first dates when possible. Men who ignore this physical foundation may be able to make some women, but probably not the ones they really desire.

You can make the woman you want with some practice and commitment to learning these �conquest Tips for Men

7. �conquest Tips for Men #7 ? Understanding the Difference Between Theory and Practical Results

As someone who has been in internet entrepreneurship for quite a while, I can tell you there is a huge difference between a ?good idea? and a successful business. So you were successful in business ten years ago in an unrelated industry? Sorry, that doesn?t cut it. To hazard that long-ago result is the same as having gone out every day for the past five years and made it happen is just ? disdainful ? candidly.

I get innumerous emails from people who want to ?partner? with me in business, yet have not even made one affiliate sale yet. I don?t even answer those emails anymore, for the most part. If you want to partner with me, Show Me Results. Otherwise, go out and develop your own business until you have results, and then we can talk. Knowing you can do it ?someday? and having already done it are two totally different things. And when you demonstrate that you do not understand the difference, it?s a turn off. It shows you do not have a cue about what women value in a man, and you really do not understand her personally either.

Women are attracted to men who are grounded in physical reality. It?s great to have high ideals so long as you are actually making it happen in the physical world. Especially if you want to make a very successful woman, you?re going to need to demonstrate touchable physical results in your own life. See #1 above. Develop your own purpose first, before you even try to go after high value women. Unless you enjoy being jilted over and over again.

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Okay, enough said for now. I have a feeling when I get back to San Francisco, I may start writing about conquest again. Maybe I?ll hazard I?m a tourist in my own town and start coming life that way ? we shall see.

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Great article. I?ll keep following and probably purchase something through your site, just because I feel connected to it. As an entrepenur, I feel it?s important to put out the right energy into the universe by actually investing to things that vibrate with me.

Let?s play the game! :)

Very wise words, a philosophy I have followed as well.

It seems the more money I spend, the more money I make..

Yep I? veau mentioned that principle in the original 30-Day �teemingness Challenge,

Yet another ?list? of so-called conquest tips. Nothing about real love here. How shoal.


What does Erika bring to the table for all of this performance, exactly?

I see a lot of demands about what a man has to do or perform for her splendid attention but what exactly do you provide for the show rapscallion jump beat all these basketball, Erika?

American women are so self- intent and entitled?.and yet they are also progressively experience severe mental issues later in life because after cachexy their really beautifully years waiting for some make-believe �tchad to jump beat all these basketball for their splendid attention, they never find him until they reach the age when the attention of possible match goes to another generation of younger women?.then they all sit around scream where have the ?good men? gone.

I?m well aware that many women are subsiding for less because they are so heroic to be in a relationship. And then I as a life coach get to hear about how scurvy these relationships are. Oh they all look ?perfect? on the surface. What you see on Facebook, and what people trust in their coach about the reality of the relationship, are two totally different things. Being alone doesn?t pall me. And as for men who would turn their attention to ?another generation of younger women? ? good expulsion. They are fast asleep. I have created an amazing life of freedom for myself, and I invested a lot in doing it. Any man who is still a sprocket in the machine would be sublimely uncongenial with this lifestyle. I?ll hold out as long as it takes for the right one to show up. Two and a half years of chastity and count. I take sex very lento, and that choice has now been confirmed over and over again as I get to see a man?s true colors. Why would I consent to be in any relationship that does not enhance my life? Most people harbor?t done the work. Most people harbor?t taken responsibility for anything in their lives. Even if I were willing to compromise, which I?m not, it can never work.

Life is not all about love. Sometimes, we just need some good old conquest, passion and sex. Love we can achieve by spiritual enlightenmeng and fondly ourselves. :)

Erika you are intelligent,
But soever not intellectual

I?m not sure what that means but okay :)

I think that knowing exactly what you find beautifully in a man is great. I think packaging the information for all men and selling it as universal truth from all women is shortsighted and egotistically swollen. Nobody likes an sycophantic weakling, but advising guys not to be nice? Douchebags are a dramamine-a- xii, and men don?t need any boost to be even less sensitive and empathic. Please don?t blur benignity and respect with helplessness.

Hi Zane,

I appreciate you fostering this concern. And yes if you?ll please see some of my other articles, I am a minority in this field in insistence on honourable behavior from men:

What we are talking about in this article is not piquant in the ? subtlety? that is really a form of use. It doesn?t mean don?t be a kind and good person. It means don?t be a pleaser. I realize that in a short article all this doesn?t always come across ? you see what I mean?


Thanks Mike :)

There are quite a few takeout thoughts here. Play a tight game. Be real. Evaluate the results. Thank you for the effort you put into this.

Thank you for sharing.

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